Do u have ur confidence???

[size=3][color=Blue]do u pay attention to ur attitude when facing difficult ?
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if u have enough confidence, u will find the problem not so big, even u have no idea about the problem, u will not
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Reply #1 cathy126's post

yup,we must have confidenceJxjQu!v_.L
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Reply #2 Frank_Brown's post

clever man!w7B
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so u can find confidence when facing difficult ?
6m!IP.R+g but………………how to do so ?

Reply #3 cathy126's post

list the difficulties you met.Wk kDL,w
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solve them step by stepR!q AI7Rk5r;?
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But it need times and patience

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* more experiences will tell you that you can do it
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[J.ML7s * always hope for the best
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[quote]Originally posted by [i]Frank_Brown[/i] at 2008-11-4 17:04 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3312258&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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?"HVBv,G b1A TKS！just deeply know ur meaning :lol

Reply #5 thisummer's post

"always hope for the best!" remember this,TKS!

yes...of course...I have...the only thing I have...:L :L

Cathy, I know what you are talking about. It is a fact!
PT!c)_a]7C0T I didn't have much strong feelings about the importance and effect of confidence, but when I began my work as an employee or a social worker, I got to feel what's it like to be confident.,Fr{zNfQ
Well, fighting and blessing, for all of us:victory:

[quote]Originally posted by [i]liuchunyanid[/i] at 2008-11-10 14:30 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3314685&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]8gs)tWIYt
yes...of course...I have...the only thing I have...:L :L [/quote]
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glad u have confidence, but why u use :L ?

Reply #9 safetyshoes's post

glad to hear that!
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ks`@F5@ UK usually after the things, i tell myself to be confident next time, so many "next time"  :L :L

believe yourself,hehe

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[quote]Originally posted by [i]cathy126[/i] at 2008-11-10 15:45 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3314756&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url] OF'ASz5|:xdP|9b%u
glad to hear that!6W9zY"m#OM
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usually after the things, i tell myself to be confident next time, so many "next time"  :L :L [/quote]
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It is cool to see your reply here.
Y n rU.C;RKU Well, I'd like to say something which is mostly about me. I clearly remember that I used to be shy and couldn't even see people's eyes. That sounds bad, hah? And there's something even worse, I don't wanna mention. The point I am trying to make is that confidence is something we can't own in a second. We need time. I'm not sure how long. I did feel me growing sometimes. And I'm not in a hurry to grow all up. {9j)jASq{7?fT
I just shared a little bit with you. Sincerely hope you become better and more confident day by day.

Reply #13 safetyshoes's post

well, tks for ur sharing!
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q6^&uGD7Is-d+q{I!X i just find confidence is more n more important. sometimes i may be act as lack of confidence……

usually do everything myself

maybe ,maybe i need collect my confidence:Q

Reply #16 jessicatsang's post

:P  not maybe, but must, then u can be better !
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confidence?
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It seems hard to me...:(

Need more confidence

Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
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Keep calm when facing difficulties and it's hepful to find the best solution.
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Sometimes I am optimistic and confident but sometimes I feel hopeless and depressed. That is terrible, but I think we need to change an attitude towards the difficulties we met  then we could find way our, otherwise, it will become heavier and heavier task~~~~~

[quote]Originally posted by [i]zcatherine311[/i] at 2008-12-10 17:18 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3334534&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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ty yes, it seems a good choice to do so               :victory: :lol

Sometimes, I can encourage others to have confidence in doing everything.w7Qh5|([
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However, I couldn't do it well myself!

Reply #22 ritawang1018's post

coz we r normal person, we may optimistic or depressed for some time, the most important thing is get to know how to
$O rV{]-n walk away from this        :loveliness:

Reply #25 cathy126's post

cathy, I have, and I must have.
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Ts [v,G2I I love confidence, never will I say goodbye to " confidence." :lol :lol

[quote]Originally posted by [i]iloveyou521[/i] at 2008-12-11 13:45 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3335255&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]zH&b3z2_p
Sometimes, I can encourage others to have confidence in doing everything.g9W"ZL"GE
However, I couldn't do it well myself! [/quote]*]!i5[@1s'\eLs
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it is easier said than done, moreover, it is easier done by others than by ourselves

Reply #26 Namiko-zs's post

wow, amy, so good !
:hRz,]N(O u will do good job being have this strong point           :victory:

Reply #28 cathy126's post

cathy, I do hope so. pf6l,T\"]X
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I am expecting year 2009.
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Don't worry about the econ. crisis, it will be OK after this 2008. :loveliness: :loveliness:

[quote]Originally posted by [i]Namiko-zs[/i] at 2008-12-11 14:02 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3335302&ptid=331622][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]Y9Mljv)t|
cathy, I do hope so. eO_7G n^
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I am expecting year 2009.
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:?0Op5I9e K!O i also hope so, there is so many plans for 2009,^ZC,uL"go-Ip[d
so let's wait for 2009