【Discussion】How to ORIENT your life properly with foreigners?

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[b]A)[/b] With the deepening of reform and opening-up,the people's mode of thinking and concepts are bound to change with the changes of the modes of production and life step by step. So does the people who are involved in overseas trade.
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[b]B)[/b] Females are facing more difficulties than before.They must find a work to earn their own living,also need raise the children etc afterwords.So at their early ages,they must earn enough money to support her later life.And many improper living method appears accordingly.,`*yFMPSN'E`

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[b]D)[/b] I also saw some articles in C-FOB talking about stories between foreigners and girls about ONS or other things like that;
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If I write such an article, will i get some rewards?:loveliness:
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io6Lx 1.It is about the development of foreign trade after the reform and opening -up policy. Foreign trade is the first job I got to know after graduation, and in this field, I did not stay for long. But here, I can still read some threads complaining about the factory, boring working environment and it is difficult to find clients. So the main point here I wamma to say is not the relationship between reform policy and foreign trade. I just want to talk something about my experience when I am doing the foreign trade job. ( I think I am a bit talkative)sH5~4uv/P$]+Tl
For those newly graduates as international sales, to get familiar with the products and field u are in is vital important. Cos it is the basic knowledge and the more u know about your products, the more relax when u are talking to your clients, they will think u are professional and willing to co-operate with u. .V+I'hH lu}
And about how to find clients and how to deal with them, there are too many threads talking about it, so I donot need to talk more about it. If u are a careful man and interested in English and u have the enthusiasm to do the job well, such threads may help. But if u donot wanna to do anything, no one could help.
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If u are bored about your job, try to find something u are interested in your job. It is easier said than done. Just like when I am talking about those opinions here, I face the same problem as well.

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2.About the situation now, modern female have to face with.
hs/~RR9T]!LTQ It is exactly, for the recent years, more women went outside for a job to support herself. Maybe in the deep heart, they donot want to do so, but in order to live a better life, they have to walk out. Or maybe they want be free as man, wanna to have their own space. What is the concept of modern woman in your mind? They have their own life, they donot need to depend on man, they have their enough money for them to lead a free-style life, they are single. X:YE#z`
For modern life, woman has to work as man. Woman has to struggle in the competitive business world. They face the same pressure as man. In this respect, woman lead a harder life than before. But they are much happier when they get what they want after their own struggle. So what , happy is the most important thing in the life. Whatever lifestyle u want, be happy is the best criterion.A:efgb.v

q5RVD5a9w;\6fj For the relation between foreigners and girl, I have writen a lot when debating with dirtydance, so there is no need to say more about it.!G`@u-l1{.BM
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8|.x(Qe-Kbt(P For BB i wanna have a try.........:loveliness:

I saw your advertisement on C-FOB...:lol :lol

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     For all the BB :lol

1，I'm very glad to live in this modern society,because I thought the femail in this society are more freedom than before,they could do anything they want;about the foreign sales with their customer have ons,it couldn't stand for all of the foreign sales,only very less of them,but that they own choice,nothing want to say them
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2,In my opinion,the love in the college is more true than that in the society.Because in the college we don't think whether the part of your lover is rich or not,whether he has the house and cars,but in the society we will consideration many things.Not say your lover love money,but the two people live in together had to conside these things.

i will try my best to win the BB

[b]I have a friend who married with a foreigner, she told me that when her husband was on a business trip to China, she was so worried that her husband would betray her, because there were so many trade girls were willing to ML with her husband in order to get orders.8J7\gFUc:@ya9p

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IODCr4{o w I really can not understand this behavior, we are just a seller, but I think we just sell product, not sell ourselves,2I:vZVrv[

1KB9Q;jXM|%o6D Maybe we are living under heavier and heavire presure nowdays, the business is not so good—especially this year, we are facing to be quited the job in the near future, but I think what we should do--- is try our best to do the job well,  the most important thing -- we should  keep learning which will make us improving with society ..[/b]

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When i first saw this topic  Reminded the colleage in my life
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Yes with the development of technology and society
CdzS(|NY We will get touch in more and more foreigners than before,and of course english is the basic tool for us to communicate with foreigners.....  Not only english but also different country's languages ....To master more languages that is means you will got more chances to orient this society i think it at least......
:k`y/A1[m4F For our females are also not so easy than before...We do all the jobs that men do...May be that is due to the development position of the world...Once saw some post said that some foreign trade personel female
5~'zQ+B,JY/S wanna find a foreigner BF blindly....Forgot the aim of this ...How dare you love a people older than you for 30 or 40 years old... Did it existed true love between you .... i guess the answer is no but not exactly true,except few......Yes we gained a lot of benefits from foreign country... but I think  money is not the most important one .... To orient our modern society doesn't mean like this.... There are so many methods for us to do..... No prejudice just my opinion for FYI.......:L

As a green hand in foreign trade, I have heard countless of comments for Chinese female do good or bad in business.
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Country: All of us do love China our country, when and where we can not do the thing making motherland loose face.
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Yes i really don not understand some female who marry with some foreigners for some unpure aim 8ne#r&D6w&mF
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We should always keep it in our mind.....
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That is work hard and do some useful things not make our motherland to lose face is ok  you will be proud of that
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#k$~8i|j-uc But i will try my best do it better with a common things.....
mrLsd$^2CQ If there are hundreds of millions people are also do like this
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C'z we are chinese....:loveliness:

I got my  job when i was a  undergraduate,my colleagues all told me that i looked like a little @,a!}cJ p
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A/Oy9Q5m.E1g.OO`(K 1. Foreigners are human beings as we Chinese. We shouldn't divide them only because they are foreigners. They have their own advantages and shortcomings just like each of us. @#JE0r[Qh
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2. I reject sacrificing ourselves to get something called order. That's ridiculous. but if one really love a foreigner and they are truely in love each other apart from business, that's another story.
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!g3X'V-XCz(_$| 3.Just behave how you are supposed to behave in front of foreigners, like Chinese businessman. Of course you should pay additonal attention to their different customs out of respect. Some Chinese businessman may also want to take advantage of you by placing order, think it over how you react to such situations. This is the same case with foreign trade! Never lose yourself because of money!2z:_'S)]h6C1vX9k
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4. They are many way to win over foreign customers, learn how the sucessful pionners did.

For foreigners, i think, if we don't take them as different people from us, it's the same to mix with them excepct the language obstacle just like to mix with Chineses, because when we firstly meet anybody, strangness will be the chief impression between us, once the common interest is mentioned and talked frequently, communication will success. This is the simplest way for human beings to adopt with each others. Here, for the special aim to hobnob with somebody, i think, among any countries, it's inevitable.

I am coming,all for the BB.

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h7w6Z+R3SVSl._ I have a friend who married with a foreigner, she told me that when her husband was on a business trip to China, she was so worried that her husband would betray her, because there were so many trade girls were willing to ML with her husband in order to get orders.
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Maybe we are living under heavier and heavire presure nowdays, the business is not so good—especially this year, we are facing to be quited the job in the near future, but I think what we should do--- is try our best to do the job well,  the most important thing -- we should  keep learning which will make us improving with society .. [/quote](e1B$P(e$Z f#Ky1w
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That`s shame 4 me,i should say sorry to my country fellow.the fact was that: i miss the chance to screw a charming sexy western young girl! while at the same time throunds of our sisters being shaged by the beasts rush to China fr all over the world !
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x0e\&Z4h7e4QN'f      U won`t feel suprising but anger while seeing a black-eyed Chinglish speaking lady flirting with a foreigner(though he may be black),yes, we have beengetting uesd to it,we even feel a little bit jealous``why i am not the guy beside her?!`. All right, i am not sayong those women are bad,maybe they really don`t want ONS,they dreaming 4 more !,ZC/uS.vn3y

FWOOS People say that u know all the men fr one man,but u know every woman is different. so it hard 4 me to gusse what those foreigner-chassing ladies mind.4 bucks?4 face(do they have?),4 sex(cos they like beast?).... wow,i can`t c what`s on.
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P,B2E+W9mK8|/b4_ ok,get back to my story.few years ago, i met a 19 year old Finnish girl in SZ city,she`s a student,stayed in this city for tourist,we met,we chat,we partied,all went along just like movies,a little romantic,a little expetation,a little tantalizing,...i should say,i did have some thought just like any other normal man do,i couldn`t go further,i dared not.ha ,can u believe? u know,even though she showed her tatoo on her brethholding  breast ! she`s always flirted me in fact,and it was her fr whom i learned the word`` xxxx job``.she`s not a bad girl,just look at her pure blue innocent eyes,she liked me,i knew,but i quited,i shirked,i was a stupid coward !)|7GZZ9q*h

.Y4f\.PA D!@jU r nothing happened between us,nor even i met her ever.all`s gone with the wind.only sometimes there is  a lonely man looking to the west at the sleepless night.

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I come here just want to know what had happened......1P0b0?*E^C:c

:w1T"A:~3q1^ to this topic, in the BBS, there are so many comments about it. Different people have different saying. And nowadays, when the economy 's develop, there are many things happened unexpected. The only thing we can do is accept it. And fact it, and then remember the experience it had given to us.
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Yes, In the society, there are so many things will make us feel sad and unaccept. But our society is developing, we should look forward it. Don't hate the society. i think in the world , the nice person is more than the bad ones. We should have a positive attitude to face this matter.
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Maybe there are some foreigners are not friendly , but that's less.....Learn the English is very important. The more and more foreigners will come to China, and we will go abroad too. So we should learn the basic tool to communicate with them. Many language should been learned. But the most thing , we should learn is how to protect ourselves.wa.F.V+`0? p&[
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For me, the female should learn self-respect. And know what life you want, and think the problems twice and then done it. When the bad things happened, we should learn face it and know what method is the best way to solve it......remember if you want to learn how to do business, the first , you should learn how to be a human being.u"`NC1K8i#f
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Anyway, we shouldn't do the things which will make us shy.....Otherwise, you will regret it in your left life. i have said so many words which so idle.....:L :L 1Q Q%OL*Xfs,\'E
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In a word, Chinese should help the Chinese. And we should treat others tolerant. Don’t hate somebody just because she had done something wrong in her life. I think if we all pay out one piece of love , the world will become more consummate.:victory: :victory:

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Actually, i did not think about this issue, i konw that now the rhythm of life continues to accelerate, and all of the people have also taken place in the lives of a lot of change, then vision have taken change, some of people hope that they are flash of golds, whatever they are. so in this time they tend to lose themselves and to pursue a more fashionable things, even material and people. so many person think of the foreigners is good, this is very foolish idea. F\ R3K(KS_lAc

|1B3u0d^q For a  foreigners, i think that we are both human, all of things is same, if you wanna know what is difference? i just say the only difference is you are not konwn each other, and you have the distance.
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I don't wanna think what others life in mordern society properly with foreigners. I also can accept someones unnormal attitudes. However, i will not do unnormal acts for some unnormal purpose. To me, maybe money and right is important, but i think my feeling is more important than those. My aim to life's quality is not high, so i never really think how much money i must be get. O \N
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I not refuse to become ture friends with others just owning to place, age, sex and so on.  If i find a person have a bad personality, i will refuse to contract with one, after all, we are two worlds people.

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^Ze1J?n Yes, In the society, there are so many things will make us feel sad and unaccept. But our society is developing, we should look forward it. Don't hate the society. i think in the world , the nice person is more than the bad ones. We should have a positive attitude to face this matter.!wO G#J5p4x
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:) you said very good.i agree with your opinion.Qmq;w[bl9R
   i think we should learn to face the truth.whether is good or bad.!iC&AH5h6cW^y
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  we should live a happy life everyday.

My BB,i am waiting for you ...:loveliness:

It seems not the problem between girls with their foreigners or foreign customerfs. If there is a problem, it's a problem of moral standards falling apart. If girls are easily got seduced by foreigners, they are likely to be seduced by Chinese rich man equally. It's a matter of money. Don't blame girls for it, males are also attracted by money and debased their moral standards
/P!F6a+p4i ICh by other tricks they can. Only sexual attraction might be a easier weapon played by femals. When male business man accompany their customers to call girls from club or KaraOK,
.V%P+AgKO7Q do they feel guilty? Do they feel they are morally corrupted? No, they visual it as casual and normal business behaviour. !O+v
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4@1`k-nu C C So this is a congregate moral corruption. Even I used to be confused by such subversive values nowaday's people have. But aware that both foreigners and chinese mainstream value still cherish family, respect honesty,  dignity, hard-working which are the essence of human being's evolution. Fortunately I'm working in the environment with these basic values which I believe is still the mainstream of the society.

This is a interesting topic for me and I would like to share some of my opinions with every FOBer here.(g)au"TV
The year I was born it was a few years later than the year that Reform and Opening-up Policy was carried out.So I don't know how the life was before like,but from the history and the life level we have now I can see the policy do bring many chances for China(not are all good things but some bad sides as well).}h6S E3^#I-B ~
I am a lady,single,majored in Computer Science and Technology in university but I am in foreign trading business line after I graduated just because I like business.And untill now have been in this business line for more than 2 years.I always thanks to this peaceful,wonderful days that I can go to study in university;earn money by myself;do my hair in the way I like;buy plenty shirts、shoes、bags;sing song in the morning when I get up...but then again,I have pressure,I worry about I can't marry a nice man have happy life together,I worry about I have no flat to live,I worry about I can't afford good life for my babies...also work and marriage,seems like hard to compatible for me now.
8E*zbV/K T;r0Fm(C Remember the days that I was a totally green man,it was a really difficult time for me.Boss and workmates they are not like teachers and classmates,they push us to work,learn and grow up quickly.Anyway it passed quickly the only thing you need to do is work hard and learn more.B+W;`6vQ'`*v:O
Talking about ONS,I think it is just like drink beer,as long as you like,do it.But have sex with customers just for orders I think it is rediculous.We need to control our quality and prices not sale bodies.I heard that many foreigners who are just a small retailer in their country,they are fat,no manner but when they come to China there are young sales like to have sex with them to get orders.Of course those type of foreigners won't refuse.But then again,of course there are pure love exsit between foreigner and chinese lovers.For example,one of my friends,she married a foreigner,this foreigner had more than 4 girlfriends before but he sacked the others sience he met her,they respect each other,care about each other,and now they have a baby,have happy life.-OZ|%u*x;B'Gw)e

4R6i~ Zy;ZF5p#D It is a happy thing to communicate with everybody,hope I can see more comments form other FOBers here.Thanks!

proud to sleep with Foreigners?

i have a friend fr France,not a mornmal trading business man,that is u can`t count on him for trade orders.he`s short ,not more than 1.65m,and he`s 50 years old this year,but he keep his body quite well which makes him look younger.he speek stong French accent English,so i gusse i might do it better than this western old pal.+_+P[,B:^

5yZ P,Z{ilz(M however, this old playboy have more than 20 girlfriends at the same time in different cities in China. he just chatted with them through MSN,that`s the way he make new girlfriends.as he told me himself,most of those girls will sleep with him at the first time met.And he was so critical that he will never have affair with any girl older than 25 !
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k-M)lZOt i feel sad and jealous.what those girls want? money? noway,he will never give a peny only the food and big comfortable bed in hotel.3vVy&yN

M:k$q&i]X!y shame for those girls!
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This is a interesting topic for me and I would like to share some of my opinions with every FOBer here.
X.\e:}yDO The year I was born it was a few years later than the year that Reform and Opening-up Policy was carried out.So I don't know how the life was before like,but from the history and the life level we have now I can see the policy do bring many chances for China(not are all good things but some bad sides as well). c'aa2fn
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I am a lady,single,majored in Computer Science and Technology in university but I am in foreign trading business line after I graduated just because I like business.And untill now have been in this business line for more than 2 years.I always thanks to this peaceful,wonderful days that I can go to study in university;earn money by myself;do my hair in the way I like;buy plen ... [/quote]/l7f0v"^3jv |0R%}
i like to share the beer with you !:)