Should I give up?

From Jan,2004,I worked in a fty as an international sales.In that company,I learned how to deal with orders independly.But more and more friends around me succeed as SOHOers,I begin to consider.Finally,I gave up the job that can offer me high salary and entered into another trade company.In the trande company,I need to do everything including expand new product,suppliers and customers certainly,as I was the first one sales in that small company.I also got more than 10clients for that company,but our boss thought we must sell our own produced goods as the pure trade has small margin.However,the quality of the proceed goods are very bad,100% complaint among 25orders(including sample orders).At that time,I was pregnant,so finally I planned to give up the job and prepared to SOHO.Unluckily,also because of my careless character, my contact e.mails were found before I give the official resign letter.Our boss entered into my provite e.mail box  when I was at home on May Holiday,2007(my e.mail passward is the same as that of my computer used in office).:e.|;PGh?

WqE\3n.KF All salary and the commission(3months) were deducted.The worest thing is that all of my products information and customers informations are stored in my privite e.mail box.All of my clients were warned that they can't contact with me again or I will be arrested.One of my best customer-friend from my first company told me that he received such warning every months.*u\N`2cF7{
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At that time,I had been pregnant for 5months.But I was very sad as it seems everyone who touched me before knows that I committed a crime.Even one of my customers write especially to me he was disappoint of me.I don't know how I can explain.I can't contact with anyone but just stay at home alonely.Though later I tried to support my self and make website and registered a HK company,but I can't attend on working again.6Y-S1N:W9L%`3G,XFPs

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A$O:~A My SoHO project is suspended.Now my baby has more than 6months.I don't know if I can continue or give up completely.

:) I'm so sorry to hear that. Sometimes we need enough courage to continue and sometimes, we do need support ourselves and let it go! It is also a good choice to give up if things force so. Whatever, you know your situation. Pls think carefully and just do it! Good luck to u and your dear baby

every bad thing will pass by , what you need to do is just to keep on and go ahead . the hard time won't be long .Trust yourself , and you have your husband and your baby !

feel sorry for the information.

]"Z_-?2i4S~,e but I don't think its a big problem,even now the boss warning all the customers you were contacting,just forget all of them,the boss,the company,also the customers,but only keep the knowladge and courage.
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Wish you and your baby all the best!

hope you will be better ....

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very upset news.
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customer is one of the most important..
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But I do hope you can find a better way for doing business. And will be successful no sooner later.

sorry for the news, trust yourself , you will be successful in your new work. Take care of yourself and your baby. :handshake

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sorry to hear that
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everything will be okay

i think the most important thing is that you should take care of yourselves and your baby at present.
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after your your child born, you can consider the next working plan. you are so excellent, you will do well, i believe.
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don't think too much about what your boss done. Gold will glitter finally.

Thank you very much for all of you!8{W*j6rv3J

,CG8kD8J!AC Z w Actually I have a very good relationship with our boss before this things happened.I don't want to others regards me as a cheater.My brother who is a lawerasked me to claim,as the e.mails which were burgled can't become evidence.The other reason is that I didn't get any profit with the company's clients information while I was working there.Although I stored som customer contact information in my privite e.mail box,I just recommended other similiar products which have not produced by my former company.It is because of this,they fired me and deduct all upaid salary and commission when I was pregant for 5months.My brother told me that at least he can help me to get the salary,but I gave it up,as I don't want to have a long dispute with the boss.Anyway I still felt sorry to him. I was really tired mentally during my pregnance.
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Now I am still can't walk out the shadow.One of my best friend said that I am too softhearted and can't be succeeded on SOHO.Maybe what they say is right.

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feel sorry for the information.
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I was unexpected that you would leave these words to me.I read your poster about your working experience before and copy your story in my PC to encourage myself.
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Now I am working in a fty produced different products with my former company.My baby is also very cute.Thank you very much !

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oh,that hateful boss...
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now,i wish you and your baby healthy and happy, and wish you can continue on what your like, the bad experience has gone away already! :D :D