cherish your acompany

life is difficult,so please cherish yr acompany.do not hurt them
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Reply #181 mayfavorate's post

life is not easy.
6K$u:hTA So we need to cherish ourselves,family.lover,job...... so many things.

when will u be in holiday

we maybe at the end of the month, just about 10days more or less,when will u be in holiday?and how long?

i'd like to change

3 person in foreign trade bussiness,and only i hitted  it luckily,but in fact,i was just a traslator in the process.and all the documents was made by our agent. i'll get my commission from the net income.
-K"U"M6Oq_\ but i do not know how much is the net income.i have to wait and get all my commission after they made all clear.including tax.maybe that 'll be in March of this year.that's 3month after oder finished.:G'eL^V
all of us know nothing about this area.just learn and do with the help of agent.which is understandable.7U;Ai7Dd2kL Ia
year by year,i'm reluctant to be just as a  bread winner,i need to share my family,my parants.as i'm the oldest of my family.but my month salary....
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come back again

hi ,everyone,i 'm the first coming back to our company in our office,how are you these days,how do Celibrate your Spring Festival? BTW,today,Valentine's day,have you got rose from your lover?:)

how to...

It must be make clear; at least there is a direction to go. The leader, the politics of your line .all factors may influence your group going forward. Most important of all, and foreground of your organization before know what and how you do to make advancement or development so that your efforts be in effect.
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AnWd4u Some useful and timely Information for the Supply of goods, the cost, technology and service hold the balance to success or failure._ CE'w y(ex;d
We??re been entangle to an information and technology time, which deep me more and more. Including all the factors I've said. Cost, price and client we must count the cost before comparing and distinguishing. Before that, there must be some professional person to handle that.7D4T EQ?#}9C$?C#a9a
But now, I nearly can not find which side we take is advantaged to others.

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you are great:handshake

what's the problem of the mail ID.

how do you differ whether the mail you recieved effectual or not. i usually check its mail ID ,the return path. some time the ID is from a city China.but the mail is a different from that of return path.
Aci7cw i called the mobile no. on the mail. surely a client recieved and admit he surely sending a mail on that day. what's the problem? I think some person who familar with or special to the computer handling it

Today,i shared some sweet English song with some of my friends as which is within my favorite.a friend said she did not interest with English song. you can not imagine my heart then,i just like to be hit by a cold shower ....

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i envy you know lots of words

Marriage?!

After about 7 years getting along with each other, his family proposed this to me at the end of last year. But for me, I can not feel some festive atmosphere.INnp'[8s(eL
Age is one aspect, another is the parents in both our family becomes older and older, both his sisters married last year, and had baby. So our marriage was count to calendar.&wr{M9p1c;i
Most awful thing is we have not enough deposit but depends on his family and 2 sisters. Which make me feeling ashamed and uneasy, as for me, I??m not willing to owe anybody, including money and affection, though I know if just him, his family also will help him. But we??re not the juvenile. We all will have our own family and will support it.
%`)T+Y2cFJo(a Though I got my first commission in my trade career, I will live with him after marriage, but till now, we have not, I don??t know if I should share mine to him. And how will my family say if I did that.

Reply #191 mayfavorate's post

7 years, so long:hug:
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but now you needn't

[quote]Originally posted by [i]aichong[/i] at 2008-2-28 16:47 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3221806&ptid=312782][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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@@XIy"Ur/E i think you should share everthing with your husband after marriage
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(z fi1l3G   may we should sharing so much thing together though we 'd got along with each other for a bout 7 years,---time and time again, we can say, we didn't live like spouse. life is full of ends and odds, you will bear something from your family, parents, relatives and so on, but not just you two. only in that way, could we be in a worm, so, individual or cooperative, which depends.i think.

please take care--bad cold

i caught a bad cold these days, and i was took 4 injection and  3times transfusion. when i saw so many child and adult as my line:L

:L time flies, 2 days to next month, i don't know what i 've done or developing or improving. just now, i was seeing a movie, i can not describe the real name, i gave it's " bride stand to the side". then was saw by our little boss. :L  so it can not be avoid that i was taken a lesson. "Don??t account on the orders from our company mailbox. Whether the business good is also depending on your information on web you sent."K"d0L
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an episode: a new bride in our office took glance at my head and ears after my turn from bathroom.:lol maybe it's too boring in the small office of this small county, and we hope for something new appearing. anyway, let it be.

y4o'Y4`'J7j?M the get to my lesson. Firstly, I must to admit that it's true that seeing movie at your work time. But for me, you should improve your skills of business negotiation and full process of international trade, which is the mainly thing you should do as an international trade. Frankly, I 'm not very familiar with the whole process of it though I??ve finished an order of more than 30,000USD. Our agent do it instead of me as the first odder from abroad--we lack experience and also it's not just a small count. Full of risk.(^1lMo4zL*u#S
Why I slacked down May some reason as follows.
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p]WsI_\D&L Y ? 2. I??ll marry around Oct.i don't want to be broke in on when I 'm in my happiest time. May I??m just a very common but not very aggressive.
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3. I feel there's no more space to develop here. We??re all newbie in our office for now. The other guy even no better than me.(sorry for my frankness) and there??re 2 guys with the  responsibility for quotation. for us, what we do are registering on free B2B,replying to client's mail, translating when there's customer coming, c OhU;Pa
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4. Laziness and pride is the deadly direct to failure. to some extent. I??m in this line. And my bf comes to this company after me. i 'm not willing to stronger than him on career. :L is this a terrible thing.

Hi writer .It is really not good for your to work same company with your bf .to clear up your mind.Your English is very well.trust yourselft.leave here .you will find a good platform to improve.Good luck to you .Have a enjoyable weekend with your bf tomorrow.

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%p3J1WL?3Q$[0f`5[ Hi writer .It is really not good for your to work same company with your bf .to clear up your mind.Your English is very well.trust yourselft.leave here .you will find a good platform to improve.Good luck to you .Have a enjoyable weekend with your bf tomorrow. [/quote]
|j!c:n@ thanks , my bf is not the same line with me. as i do international trade but he's in inner trade. that's the difference. but we nearly marry, how can we get along with each other if we 're far away with each other? i was confused by future life

nothing

Half a month just like youth. When you turn back, at a glance, you found yourself has gone a way from the point your remember one minute before. That??s time, that??s life. _2{][w6K
i found it's more and more hard on this area. I don't know where the reason is. Maybe the depressing market, immature techniques, unsatisfactory quality, policy of our government, Platform Company supplied, material appreciation or environment. It??s always hard to say when do bad other than doing good.~$D r z:y1KEtm$U
I don??t know how my life will be. And where I will stay. But one thing. I want do what I want and will when I can.

[quote]Originally posted by [i]mayfavorate[/i] at 2008-4-17 13:33 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3241515&ptid=312782][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
8I5d5C)\~3gzdy6y'j Half a month just like youth. When you turn back, at a glance, you found yourself has gone a way from the point your remember one minute before. That??s time, that??s life. t(m*O[q0v
i found it's more and more hard on this area. I don't know where the reason is. Maybe the depressing market, immature techniques, unsatisfactory quality, policy of our government, Platform Company supplied, material appreciation or environment. It??s always hard to say when do bad other than doing good.
FQh0D~1s I don??t know how my life will be. And where I will stay. But one thing. I want do what I want and will when I can. [/quote]
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Don't be so upset. You should understand that you're not alone and what u meet may be as the similar with others. Make a different point of view pls. Actually, life is always nice with difficulties.:) :victory: Cheer up

Quote :Maybe the depressing market, immature techniques, unsatisfactory quality, policy of our government, Platform Company supplied, material appreciation or environment. It??s always hard to say when do bad other than doing good
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My dear friend : These are the reality you have to face, nothing is easy, every businessmen and traders got to live with it and no exceptional. The only differences are the substance and degree. How best you could solve it would determine your worth. You will loss the war instantly if you are afraid to face them even before it starts

Sense of security

Since last dispute, I feel my sense of security lost. just a sentence,?¡À it??s none of your business, weren??t my business ability better than yours??¡À when he said that to me. I can feel my shock obviously and my whole body trembling out of rage. This is out of my future husband??s mouth. Then I usually think that if I depend on him. How will he treat me? ---just a little success now will make him say out those words.
(p4S"|Eh,{H8] I don??t know how I can smooth them out. It??ll be better if only I just remember whatever and whenever who do good to me and forget those make me sad and unsatisfied.ef'].[/l%w
There??re more than once I??ve asked me does he really love me, should I marry him and similar question. ---------dread before marriage?

Reply #200 ykkdkky's post

to some extent, i agree with you, thank you all the same. maybe man will depress when in dark for a long time, at the same time also the turning point. insist or give up. it's up to you or not------which is hard to say

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6m M/CEWS~? Since last dispute, I feel my sense of security lost. just a sentence,?¡À it??s none of your business, weren??t my business ability better than yours??¡À when he said that to me. I can feel my shock obviously and my whole body trembling out of rage. This is out of my future husband??s mouth. Then I usually think that if I depend on him. How will he treat me? ---just a little success now will make him say out those words.e1m-r1qF$|3b3WeJ$^
I don??t know how I can smooth them out. It??ll be better if only I just remember whatever and whenever who do good to me and forget those make me sad and unsatisfied.
mO:u~"V There??re more than once I??ve asked me does he really love me, should I marry him and similar question. ---------dread before marriage? [/quote]
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$IO;f.} D7[6{ Dispute is always not true. Each of us has temper. If you think he is the one you're waiting for. Try to understand each other mutually. Emotion sometimes is weak.

Reply #203 mazy's post

thanks ,dear mazy:)

is there anyone working today? how did u enjoy the Dragon boat festival?:)

1st order in 2008

same customer as last year, 1st order in 2008 has been shipped and sent away,J(BJ.n'V-a r.KsA{
2nd order nearly set out in 2week. we're nearly familiar with all the procedure of bussiness.esp. for me as well as who make quotation, unlukily, it's seems not very smooth this year. the material appreciate nearly 400RMB/ton than when we win the order, total amount is more than 200tons, :L you can guess how much shall we loss:(

practice makes perfect

so long time delaying dairy, i found my thought and mouth dull and stiff, some times some  mistake may embarrass customers,u&c1@jj_Vyu3Ho
when i picked the customer, i introduced the schecudule to him, vri?/T$?
---" we will sent u to hospital firstly"
9I5@;`I.V0z{]*B -"what? oh, no, i don't want to be sent to hospital"
0V2eY pa b"R just at that moment, i understood i making a big mistake, what i wanted to say is "hotel" but i ...:Q
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i always confused between" hotel" and "restaurant". u may hard to believe that.but acctually it's so large space to improve for me.

hot wire

the advance payment arrived from Europe 15days since inquiry to payment, though it's a small order :just about 30000USD. all the payment just made by T/T. the frankness of the customer from Europe impress me deeply compare which from India. how luky i was if more bussiness from Europe. "but at the same time, you can learn more in the procedure when u do with Indian bussiness man," one of my colleague said

i found my English is so dry as chip. how i want to express what i want to say exactly, all know, that means more and more need to be done, even if just a little improvement by day
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handling charge made me sick

one customer of my colleague ask for the handling charge when he made the payment, which make me angry though he's not my client, just national trade,ask for 100RMb.:Q ,How ridiculous, :L