[quote]Originally posted by [i]ritawang1018[/i] at 2007-8-28 09:59 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3102023&ptid=310755][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]N-K b(E+N$NP/C
I have a plan  in the future, I can open a samll shop selling books realted to English.2k$FK#]!d$`?
I will decorate that samll shop, and there will be music, tea, coffee, friends who have some similar talk  ... [/quote]X9dI/eG
dreams as what i dream

Everyone should learn how to survive in this society. 'yP:q Z(zx
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Congratulations! You are the winner!
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q1hwqp#G;C Please go on!

yeah,i like autumn for it is the harvest time,but where is my fruit
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maybe i am not working hard enough to gain enough fruit i deserve
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I wrote a long story of my staying in beijing.-x?.h1RwP
since i came to bj,I just found myself like arQ written by luxun.R5[gE4VI,U
i am immersed in this city.:')

i wish you are good all time !wish you good luck!

[b][color=DarkOrange]2008 autumn'\E*|/|5ct
When I open the first topic thread which posted last year, it reminds me the exciting in the words when I got my first job. And new thing happened to me.
G@"uCler Now a year passed, when the autumn comes, what did I get this year?E'Fq5m(PbtYl]
I quit my first job and got my second job. I earned more than before. But life is still peaceful and I got no plan for future now. I lost myself in this city. I cannot find the direction clearly now. I am no longer exciting when I have to work. Everything seems changed, but I am still myself. In the same city, lead the same life. For the whole year, what more did I get?ep
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Why? As time flies, I get less than before, I lost my joy and interest in working, and moreover, I lost the direction. Why? Who can tell me why?OLfE{
Really, as the growth of ourselves, we lose more and more? No , of course not, we should gain more and more, that is normal. But look back the past time, I donot even know how I spent it! How could I do like this? I should think over it patiently!
$d io'\~9YB The more I thought, the more complex my mind would be. &?6K3b5O{D J P
Let it be. Right? Sure, I can control myself but no one else, my life is not bad, is it? And I am still healthy, and I got friends, I got a job without worrying my life. BUT, when I think of the future, I saw nothing. Ha, ironic, I hate it! A short summary for myself. I hope when I read the thread next autumn, it will be a different feeling. Time flies.
/^GK|^(IN/C-] more :lol :) :P  less :') :Q :L :(  !!!!!!!!
r#x6E,P(?K Where is the exciting ,optimistic and energetic character of me? Like has taken it away? Life has made us mature? Or life has made us lifeless?
X1H| ^'K^ No!!! Win it back! [/color][/b]

Reply #1 ritawang1018's post

best wishes, rita! :P

got my broken love in autumn

Rita you are so excellent/P)U_U&\Vn,u
You know is really not an easy thing for a girl work in beijingot(vw+z,Y3L+g9g
And you did it
l+S|d1{ From lived in basement to got your first salary
-D7z\ J8B o9j] Dear i  experienced you suffered
&VZ&T)A,w4DhbY5C#J$A But i am more lucky than you 5Ltlwnt{)f
C'z i lived with my aunty
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In fact
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If i could used to it
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mU5yw7b O9D So you are excellent gitl:loveliness:

Autumn is my favorite season1f!tf|x3k5@;f4HI
I used to got my first love in the season
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In this year
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R7_#E2b what i got are so many friends from fob......-`;i\0h~ s`
I think that is enough....:loveliness:

[quote]Originally posted by [i]sting433[/i] at 2008-10-6 12:30 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3299546&ptid=310755][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
#aFL:^!_1gMIgm1] Rita you are so excellent
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And you did it
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But i am more lucky than you
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I really like the city
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I will not leave beijing:hug: :hug:
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it makes me feel i am strong enough to suvivie here.!bN%xh%|+g,U

#z}4W r Qy@%sDZ but as a matter of fact, i want to escape from here, i am coward of staying here for long, i got no preparation for it.
^6q3D%T-p7Z[5} Here i got no relatives and no more friends, but only one male senior classmate. and i am afraid to make new friends in the society. !J{$U1u4U5S
Eveyone seems like to wrap ourselves in their own space without intention to make new ones.
%^LPl4n9yn#L When i plan to rent a house, i found i got nobody to share it, when i want to talk something about my heart, but found nobody could.5l\5v.XF8y$E
So sometimes, i 'd rather go away and stay in the environment that we can share something with my best friends.:(

Reply #37 Jillyvon's post

thanks honey, but where are u in beijing now?

jianjuanyan's reply

OH , GOD , we have the same dream , i also want to have a shop of my own which selling books .

[quote]Originally posted by [i]ritawang1018[/i] at 2008-10-6 15:40 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3299647&ptid=310755][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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but as a matter of fact, i want to escape from here, i am coward of staying here for long, i got no preparation for it.
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So sometimes, i 'd rather go away and stay in the environment that we can share something with my best friends.:( [/quote]e&ruZtq/aQ`
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s ?N6C.]7Hk Sometimes you feel lonely and depressed is very natural
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You should touch more with your colleagues to enjoy yourself :loveliness: C C1aS-q]{
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Go out you will make yourself happy.........:hug: 4i&bMf'Z

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Take care of yourself.............:hug:

You have a strong willpower and endure a lot of hardships. These things will be a good lesson for your success. struggling with the difficulties in front of you and go ahead! You will be the great one.

Reply #44 sting433's post

Thanks sting.P,w3W$`O_c'K
I am glad to find friends here who care me so much. But it is really a pity that in the real world, I was far away from my best friends, they cannot help much, by contrast, they always asked me to help them on solving the problem about love, life and so on. Every time, I will ask them to cherish the stable life with beloved beside. They did not come out to see the world, so sometimes they cannot feel my feelings.%P/?)f+a
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I pay out my youth, I am sure to gain something when staying in big cities! No pains, no gains. Now I am bearing the lonely and hopeless in order to find a better life, to catch up with the happy life I want to have.
Uo,\+J"W I think u are also a girl like this, brave, happy and kindhearted. U will have a bright future, I am sure u can.

Reply #45 crystina0903's post

thanks for your encouragment.    :loveliness:

[quote]Originally posted by [i]ritawang1018[/i] at 2008-10-8 10:24 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3300496&ptid=310755][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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Thanks sting. l$OeN9? t)V
I am glad to find friends here who care me so much. But it is really a pity that in the real world, I was far away from my best friends, they cannot help much, by contrast, they always asked me to help them on solving the problem about love, life and so on. Every time, I will ask them to cherish the stable life with beloved beside. They did not come out to see the world, so sometimes they cannot feel my feelings.0ba*^nM2RW3P}$v
I pay out my youth, I am sure to gain something when staying in big cities! No pains, no gains. Now I am bearing the lonely and hopeless in order to find a better life, to catch up with the happy life I want to have.;c,D[
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I think u are also a girl like this, brave, happy and kindhearted. U will have a bright future, I am sure u can. [/quote]
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Thank for your encouragement.
N2r#t.HB!Z-]1HJ As you mentioned ,to find a good friend who are willing to listen your voice .It's very difficult in this world.Your friends asked you for help, may be I can considered it they believe and trust you. And also another meaning is when they were in hot water, will thought of you.3zQm#K;Y7fq.y
If i will not graduated from university and went out for a work,I am also don't know the difficulties to make a  survive for a girl. May be that is the process of growing up. I cherished and experienced.AnRxbl Qs m0h
No pains , no gains i like this sentence very much. How much you paid, how much you will gained. Dear I believe you must have a good future ,C'z you are so excellent.&[#~*y"PA#Yvk|
Any way, we should fight together for our better life.........:hug:

Reply #1 ritawang1018's post

it's my pleasure to read your one year's experience, man will experience a process, energetic-- shake down,--learn, make friends, time goes by, you'll feel a little lonely after familar with  the enviroment, a word said ,there's no views in the surrounding where you're familiar, which said it. at the very beginnig, it's you to conform with others, inculding person and environment, then, they will become dissatisfactory to you. at this time. we must learn to adjust us properly. the point is you satisfied with the time you pass there, how, gainnning some, you feel you 're not idle your youth. please do not escape something ,just face it. experience is the fortune, no matter it's sadness or happiness, cause life can not full of happiss, which is company with something bad, right,
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Reply #5 ritawang1018's post

beautiful dream.

have nothing in the two months:') :') Ha\AXcY
what can i do ?/Q6\\T9f"jW%T
GOD,pls give me some orders!!!:loveliness:

[quote]Originally posted by [i]ritawang1018[/i] at 2007-8-28 09:59 [url=http://forum.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3102023&ptid=310755][img]http://forum.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]8?4?? c rSp-L f9w
I have a plan  in the future, I can open a samll shop selling books realted to English.ukv-^bi#B[x5Qv
I will decorate that samll shop, and there will be music, tea, coffee, friends who have some similar talk with me.R!j E#A ^)LjM0t3IjdpW
I can also do some soho translation if i need some more coins.:lol Open a web shop on the taobao,that will be fun.3Cw/[9FB#T}wy
just a dream. I am poor now.:L  [/quote]
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:) Come On!@L.zy1}!o"U.D\8y \
   you will be success in the future if you insist on doing that depend on your dreams.6Y/md;o$YdAO
   Come On is same to me!:victory:

no failure of sucess is not exist
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(a^F2TJ CF there is still long way to goy:R @1cLN1|+H;M
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you just have a sucessful beginning

i get a beginning of my career ,that is a hard time for me nowday because of being freshman of foreign trade.`-N%qU+oix
hope some one can help me out
?^!|2pA5\&q my hotmail is [email]aaron.asia@hotmail.com[/email]

How luck you are!!!

Harvest in Summer

Now I am learning Japaness. I hope I could keep on learning, and never give up. I also complain that my life is tough, but I am luck. I have a boyfriend that really love me, laso my parents really love me a lot. Last Summer I gain a love relationship, this summer I have a work. I can't make a promise that I could harvest in Japaness. But I hope at that time I still learning Japaness. Keep moving on.